If you want to reduce the diameter of the poppet, you can do it with a hand drill and Dremel tool. Chuck up the stem in the drill, and clamp the drill to your work table and turn it on. Use an emory wheel in the Dremel to abrade the outside diameter, with the two spinning opposite directions. Finish by dressing the surface with progressively finer grits of sandpaper.You can substitute a file in place of the Dremel tool, but be advised there is a greater chance for the poppet to grow out of round.