That’s true, Rick… I’ve spent time in S. Korea and a little in Japan. Most, especially ladies, cover up from the sun- white gloves in the summer, even. Us knuckleheads, well… I remember my Mom and her generation and the first half of my generation using baby-oil to soak in as much sun as possible… might as well have used cooking oil.
Mornin y’all. On the subject of daughters and foreign country’s, we are off to deliver the Iron Maiden to the airport today. She has decided to move to Brazil and marry some guy she met on line. She has been trying to join a cult for several years but so far we have managed to thwart her. I support her financially and I just turn off the money if she gets too crazy. As crazy as she is she still prefers air conditioning and internet access to living on the street so we’ve at least had that much control of her lifestyle. But she says she has met a rich man in Brazil and she is going to live with him. Pretty sure she’s about to get her organs harvested and end up in a shallow grave.She’s 29 and smart enough to fool the psychiatrist so there’s nothing we can do.I am numb. After 25 years of dealing with her mental illness I am burned out. If I never see her or hear from her again I don’t care. But my wife is going to be devastated and I do care about that.To all of you with sound, mentally healthy kids, know that you are blessed. Love them and cherish them everyday.
Thanks for the sympathy guys. I just had to vent. And not to my wife!I have to be very philosophical about this. We cannot live our children’s lives for them. I have a reputation for exceedingly poor judgement and being a few cards shy of a full deck myself so that little apple didn’t fall far from the tree.
Quote from: Blowpipe Sam on December 26, 2022, 03:58:19 PMThanks for the sympathy guys. I just had to vent. And not to my wife!I have to be very philosophical about this. We cannot live our children’s lives for them. I have a reputation for exceedingly poor judgement and being a few cards shy of a full deck myself so that little apple didn’t fall far from the tree. Difficult news to hear indeed. I can't even imagine being in that situation so I won't even begin to offer an opinion. It seems easy to be on the outside and toss advice in but one truly don't know what they would do without experiencing all the details first hand. Not only that but, 2 different individuals might respond completely different from one another even under the exact same circumstances.I wish you and the daughter the best of luck. Even more importantly, I wish for her safety as well as happiness.