Believe what you want.... I'll follow the advice of Robert McCoy.... Those graphs are specifically for the 51 gr. BBT, calculated using his program, developed at the Aberdeen Proving Grounds.... If he says the stability when Subsonic decreases with increasing velocity, I believe him as to the trend.... How the actual SF number relates to the twist required may be up for debate, but IMO not the general principles.... You will find that general shape of graph for every projectile, complete with the discontinuity at Mach 1....Bob
Not sure about lubing your bullets. I use imperial sizing wax and only put a little on my finger to rub on a bullet. I do that about every 10 bullets to make sizing easy. Also what size is your barrel? .256" seems awful large for a .25I found your barrel size. Try shooting smaller. .001" in my opinion is to much. I don't shoot more then .0002".Did you check the bullets after sized?